I can totally relate to you, I am also very very pale and burn easily and also unfortunately am quite sensitive.I would reccomend a gradual tanning moisturiser that you can build up to a colour that suits you while also moisturising your skin.But then again,i agree with eskimo bek, pale is gorgeous, just look at nicole kidman,probably the most famous poircelein actress there is and how gorgeous is she?! and my personal favourite is definately rose mcgowen, she makes me proud to be pale,im so over the over tanned stars,bring on the pale!!