Tattoos

Dear Beautymax,
I like them both but I like number one the best. My man has a few tattoos done by different artists and is going to have some more work done in a few weeks so if he is any good I will let you know as he is in Mandurah.
I have been thinking of getting one for a while just having a little trouble with the fine tuning. I want it to represent my three children. My two eldest childrens names are both hebrew names meaning life, (total fluke, didn`t even realise until my second child was three months old). My youngests means a talon. So I have thought on having the ankh or even more appropriately the hewbrew symbol for life with a talon circling it or going through it. I have also thought of having my loves family crest somehow incorporated. Even if something went terribly wrong it would still be special because it is my childrens heritage as well.
I don`t think it`s a good idea to get your partners name tattooed at all in the first six months because there is too much dopemine (hope I spelt that right) being released in the brain and influencing decisions. I think it would be better to wait until the honeymoon phase is over. Just my opinion. Each to their own. xxx

Lol thats a new way of looking at it Meaghan. I think just the reminder of a name being tattooed on you of your ex bf/gf would be really painful as well.

I think it is a bad omen to tattoo someones name on yourself! I`ve been with my husband 8 years and I love him too much to risk jinxing our relationship by getting his name etched in my skin!

I think that getting a tattoo is not only a LIFE decision (even having them removed with laser surgery will leave a life-long scar) but it`s also a very personal decision which requires a lot of thought. I have 2 tattoos, one I got when I was 18, the other I got when I was 21. I do not regret either one of them as they have personal meanings and I think they are very attractive to look at. One is a small blue butterfly on my right hip and the other is a matching blue small flower on my right shoulder. Both signify personal meanings (would explain but it`d take too long lol) and both are feminine and small. The other good thing about my tats is they are easily concealable – for job interviews, special occasions etc.
I do not believe that having ones boyfriends name tattooed on oneself (at a young age anyway) is a good idea as if the relationship fails, you`re stuck with a permanent reminder of it. However, as I said above, it`s a very personal decision and it feels 100% right to you – do it 🙂 Let us know what you decide beautymax xoxoxo

Each to their own – I would never get a boys name tattooed – like others said – you never know what will happen in the future etc – I see more value in having parents/children names tattooed if you wanted to go that way. Personally I just think you should put a lot of thought into any tattoo you get, and only get something that really means a lot to you.

Yeah I think thats how I also think of it just the fact that there is the smallest possibility of anything being able to happen in a relationship that would hold me back from doing that.

It obviously isnt the best idea but certainly isnt “”massively stupid””! Kay n Jay you aid it, if they are in love and know it and believe in the future of their relationship it would be a good choice. however i cant go past the fact that NOTHING is guarenteed in a relationship, so personaly wouldnt go there! Lol!

Oh seems we both misunderstood then, I`m sorry as well 🙂

No Alexa you misunderstood this, wasn`t going towards you i didn`t like the fact how joannah said it is a “”massively stupid idea””. Sorry for the misunderstanding

No you clearly misunderstood my post. I stated clearly in my personal opinion (so you cant really have a problem with it since its just my opinion) that I think its not the greatest of ideas to have your bf/gf names tattooed on you permanently. Although I didnt say it is a wrong decision, people can roam around and do whatever they please and I love it when people do that without caring what people think of them actually, I respect that. Just like you can say that it is not a stupid idea or wrong, I have the right to oppose you and say that it is. Each to their own really. It`s their bodies so I guess its up to them to do whatever they feel comfortable.