breakup advice?

Hi there.Im sorry about your situation. This will pass and you will move on. Do what you feel, get out and meet other people. Have fun. You never know what the future holds. Find someone better and put this down to experience. It does hurt, but trust me it does get better. Hang in there. All the best babe. Spoil yourself. Enjoy your me time

do not be so sad, maybe he is not just your cup of tea. there would be nice guy for you in the future.

Every relationship has its ups and downs, this is obviously the end result. Break ups are hard, they all involve a grieving process, but you will get past it. I used to allow myself a day or two to mope around the house, eat chocolate and watch soppy movies then after that i would go out, treat myself to new clothes or get my hair done, just something special to boost the confidence once again. Just don`t fall into the traps of rebounds (they rarely work), or putting him down to friends, even if you hear he`s saying things about you that aren`t true or very nice. Best of luck.

awww… Sme4eva, that sucks big time.what a low life…i know its hard to hear this and please dont think of me as harsh but you should be glad you found out now rather than later what a creep he is, especially since he chose your friend over you, and your friend seems to be no better either..i really hope you heal and have fun and move on, since that is the biggest and best revenge heh heh :p xx

break ups are not easy im telling you i know im only young but still young love hurts alot too i git out of my first serious realtionship and he dumped me for one of my friends which was just low and his excuse was he never loved me oh plz get a life boy

aww..hope your okay shopaholicshell, please feel free to rant and rave to us, we`re all here for u. im late coming into this topic but as well as everything the girls have already said, i hope your doing okay.reading your latest post, seems you are doing quite nicely, well done on the gym and mani and just having fun.and congrats on your job at the makeup store, hope all goes well for you and just continue to take your time healing, having fun and getting to know yourself all over again xxx and please continue to vent to us if u need to

wow the makeup shop sounds like fun and its great that u treated ur self =keep it up.take your time only meet him when u feel ready to and be sure to wear a beautiful outfit

Sarahnh91 sounds like all the great advice here has helped! Your doing great and how awesome scoring a job at a makeup store! yay, Congrats and good luck for your first day tomorrow 🙂 The gym, mani`s looking after yourself and getting out there is important, keep it up and life will keep on getting better for you, you never know what great opportunities are around the corner. p.s is that you in your avatar piccie, great smile & gorgeous piccie!

shopaholics shell please do share 🙂

i thought i should update you all on my progress, and i cant thank you enough for all your advice.
ive been hanging out with alot of friends the ex didnt approve of, and ive been going to parties and having fun.
i went and got a manicure and now go to the gym alot more aswell.
i also got a job 🙂
at a local make up store!
i start tomorrow and cannot wait.

i recently ran in the the ex at a party, and it was awkward but everything is still fresh.
he wants to be friends and has been asking to catch up, but i think im going to take a little time longer.

im feeling really good about life (:
better than i have in a very very long time.

once again thank you ladies, it was amazing to have ousiders advice 🙂
xox

Oh shell I hope you are ok babe – a broken heart is the worst pain ever felt! Chin up girlies xx