How to increase your chances of conceiving

Despite what Disney films and children’s books led us to imagine, we all stopped believing a long time ago that babies are delivered to families via a stalk carrier (you lied to me Dumbo!). Whether you learnt about the birds and the bees from your parents, your older siblings or some ‘cool’ rebellious kids at school, I’m sure you’re pretty up to speed with how it all works. Something you might not know however is what factors might inhibit your ability to conceive or how to increase your chances. To get the facts straight, I speak to City Fertility Centre fertility specialist Simone Campbell, Dr Alex Polyakov and dietician, nutritionist, writer and educator for BioCeuticals Belinda Reynolds to find out all about the dos and don’ts of conceiving.
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Conception myths
As with anything to do with health (and sex), there are a few myths out there parading as facts. Simone identifies the top three myths that you should ignore if you’re trying for a baby:
1) Every woman ovulates on day 14 of their cycle – WRONG! Simone explains, “The reality is that ovulation is individual dependent on how long the menstrual cycle is and will not always be on day 14. For example, a woman may not ovulate until day 21 if she has a 35-day cycle.
2) Fertility is a female issue – Believe it or not, some couples still believe this to be the case! Simone tells us, “When a couple is trying to conceive, the male’s reproductive health is just as important [as] the female’s and also contributes towards optimising the chances of a healthy baby.”
3) Age doesn’t matter – It seems unfair but fertility is yet another mechanism of your body that declines with age (when will it end!). Simone urges couples to keep their age in mind when planning for a child, as “a woman’s age is often the most important indicator of a chance of conceiving. A man’s fertility also declines from the age of 38.”
Fertility factors
For women, there are a number of factors that affect fertility. These include:
- Weight – Simone explains that ovulation can be affected by being both under or overweight. If a woman’s BMI is within a healthy range, ovulation is more likely to occur normally, increasing the chances of falling pregnant.
- Ovulation disorders – Dr Polyakov tells us that ovulation disorders occur in three out of 10 couples experiencing fertility problems. They can manifest themselves in a variety of ways from irregular to absent periods. The most common causes of these disorders are polycystic ovary syndrome, endometriosis, hormone imbalance, weight management issues and excessive exercise. Thankfully, these can be treated.
- Age – As mentioned above, age is an important factor in fertility. According to Simone, “Once a woman reaches the age of 35, her fertility begins to decline. By age 40, it is estimated that her conception rate is in the range of eight to 10 per cent per month and at age 43, the pregnancy rate is thought to be as low as one to three per cent per month.
- Stress – Belinda tells us that stress can play havoc with hormone levels, including sex hormones, which can in turn decrease chances of conceiving.
For men, weight, age and stress also affect fertility, along with:
- Sperm quality – Dr Polyakov tells us it’s often hard to determine why a male might have an abnormal sperm analysis. Simone explains, “Sometimes lifestyle factors can impact the sperm quality and if amended can result in improvements, however in some cases assisted reproductive technologies are required to assist in achieving a pregnancy.”
- Lifestyle factors – Many men don’t realise that mature sperm take about two months to form. Simone tells us, “A male’s reproductive health is impacted by his diet, lifestyle, general health and environment of some two to three months prior.” This means that if a man is hoping to conceive with his partner, he must ensure he is maintaining a healthy BMI as well as avoiding drinking and smoking for a few months before trying.
Advice for conceiving
There are ways to optimise your chances of conceiving (hoorah!). The first, and probably most obvious (and certainly the most fun) strategy is to have lots of sex. I can practically hear men everywhere rejoicing. “Your likelihood of conceiving is substantially increased if you have regular sexual intercourse in the three days leading up to and including ovulation,” Simone adds. Other ways to help the process include:
- Knowing your cycle, as the timing of your ovulation is critical to successful conception.
- Being fertility fit! Simone refers to this as ensuring “you maintain your weight within the recommended BMI; eat a healthy balanced diet and undertake moderate exercise; limit caffeine and alcohol intake, stop smoking and any drug use.”
- Taking a prenatal vitamin will ensure “the woman’s folic acid, iron and vitamin D stores are topped up in order to prevent birth defects,” says Dr Polyakov.
- Belinda urges couples not to compare themselves to others as this can cause unnecessary stress. “Everybody and every couple is different. Try to enjoy the opportunity to improve your health in preparation for the pregnancy and the later journey through parenthood.”
So there you have it, happy baby-making!
What other myths or facts have you heard about conceiving?
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My heart goes out to those who struggle with these issues. Been there done that, and it’s not nice. I had female issues and we weren’t sure if I would be able to have children. I got lucky twice! I am so blessed. They are grown up now.
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Feel sorry for people that have to plan and go through all that. I was lucky enough to fall pregnant straight away with both of my children but know many people who struggled for many years and some that still cannot concieve
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Good information to consider. Thanks BH for sharing.
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For me the best thing I did was took up yoga regularly! I found exercising and doing yoga allowed my mind to relax and it just happened :) but these are all such useful tips!
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Having PCOS weight is a huge factor in my fertility! So is stress!
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thank you for the point in this article about it being a man and a womens issue. it can be the man as well- and sometimes he can be the issue. i absolutely get fed up with everyone blaming the women or testing the women.... its a two way street
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Great informative article on boosting your chances of fertility.
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No babies for me at the moment
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Hi have you thought of going to a naturopath as i had tried with my husband for 5 years and we tried doing ivf but without success then a friend of mine put us on to a naturopath and we really wanted a baby so we did everything she said to do and we did it and 6 months later i was pregnant with my daughter whom is now 16 years old. So i say at least look into it.☺and
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Thank you for clarifying a few points and busting some of those myths.
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I don't know about the age thing. When I was 41, and we had been married for 17 years, my husband and I decided it was time to have a baby 'before we were too old'. So I went off the pill and bingo I fell pregnant almost immediately.
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Thank you for this article. Im about to try for 2nd. Will be taking this advice x
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Wishing you the best of luck freaky!
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All the best freaky! ;-)
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Good luck freaky
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I think stress is a very important contributing factor to your ability to fall pregnant. At least that isn't something which I am worried about right now!
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Good luck to everyone whose trying to get pregnant.
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Phew, so glad my baby making days are over! It is stressful trying to conceive, but of course stress makes it worse, so it's a bad cycle
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I used the billing method for my second child and it really worked. I fell pregnant within two months
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My mother is 41 is year and is currently 2 months pregnant - she has a feeling she's having twins! Hmmm...
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My sister tried for 12 years to give her first-born a sibling, to no avail. Then she fell pregnant at 41 without even trying! It came as a big shock!
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I'll save this IF I decide to get pregnant
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I never gave it any thought about how hard it can be to conceive until I found out that I have extremely low egg reserve. Now ageing freaks me out even more
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So mamy of us take it for granted but for couples with issues they can really struggle.
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