Need help! Improving libido over 40
Hi Guys,
Ive never posted here before and I am actually really embarrassed but I need some advice. I can’t talk to my close friends about this because I don’t think they’d treat it as a joke. I hope it is okay to post this here. I just have no one to turn to.
My hubby and I have been married for 12 years and together for 20. We used to have an incredible sex life but over the last 6 or 7 years it has dwindled to nothing. We adore each other still and have so much fun together and we are the best of friends. But our sex life is zero. We both seem to have no libido (he used to smoke pot heavily for many years)but recently for me, it is coming back. I want us to get back to what we used to be, even just a little bit. But I have no confidence left. Ive gained a bit of weight too (which I am working on losing)
Anyway sorry for the long story but I either need to change things or just continue to watch Peaky Blinders and fantasize about Cillian Murphy!
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