Help me with a guy

Yes Hely you hit the nail straight on the head, lol. And they just seem to get thicker with age too, 15 years later and my partner still can`t read signals, he just needs big neon signs, lol. Have that chat Beautyqueen. Just remember heaps good friends don`t always make heaps good boyfriends. :0)

might have a chat with him, see how he feels about it…..

but im one of the oldfashioned guy asks girl type of person… time to change i guess

it is hard.. friends are supportive of me tho..

Hey Beautyqueen95.

Was once in your predicament. Guys have no idea about signals and are soooo thick. Just let it be known (subtly and classy like) how you feel and if reciprocates then you`re in. If not. It`s okay. Plenty of guys stil in the world. xoxox

Ive been in this situation before and it did not end well.for me.we both had feelings for eachother,yes,and we had a massive talk about it all..ruining our friendship cos we were such close friends,if we could ever go back to the friendship if we broke up etc..and it worked for a little while but in the end he confessed he felt weird about the whole thing,and though we tried to go back to being best friends…i just got hurt in the end and we haven`t spoken since, which sucks cos i miss him so much as a friend.

on the other hand, maybe it will work for you.it is not unheard of, two close friends developing their friendship into something more and having it work for them.just follow your heart and trust your instincts, if something doesnt feel right, it probably isn`t.good luck, keep us posted

That`s always the best thing darl have a good old think about it, my thoughts are with you, I hate guy dilemmas. Only you can judge the personal things like whether you think he`s just flirting back for a bit of fun or whether there`s something there. Good luck hun, let us know how you go!

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he doesnt get embarassed by the flirting, and sometimes flirts back. it is scary, and some people tell me that i shouldnt. thanks for the support guys and wish me luck. i will think about it…..

beautyqueen95 xxx

Ooh not this situation. Definitely been in this one myself. One thing to always keep in mind is whether or not you`re willing to run the risk of losing the friendship. Whether he likes you back or not, asking him out probably means that things will never be the same again – of course, not necessarily in a bad way, but you`ve just got to remember that.

follow your heart

Of course you`re not being stupid! However, it is SO hard to give advice about this subject . . . do you flirt with him? and if you do, how does he react? Does he flirt with you? I hate to say it but getting emotionally involved can certainly affect a friendship if only one person has romantic feelings. But . . . if you really feel something for him and he doesn`t feel that way about you, could you really feel happy continuing to be `just friends` or would it hurt too much?

I think you need to go with your instinct. If you think about it really honestly, and have a good look at your current relationship with this guy, you should have some idea as to how he will respond if you ask him out. If not, then flirt with him a bit and see how he reacts. It could be a good indicator.

Best of luck Beautyqueen95, I really feel for you because I have been in your position and it`s so scary.

xxxxx