15 yrs, 3 mths ago

Bitchy School Fights

OK at the moment everyone is being very two faced and can’t stop bitching and fights keep exploding!!!
I dont know what to do as i dont really have another group to go to and everyone is just being bitchy and inmature…
Any advice??
Cheers

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  • 15 yrs, 3 mths ago

    usually trying to help them just involves more bitching and the last thing you want to do is get caught up in it. ignoring it and/or staying out of it usually works, as does saying that your not taking any sides, because when you do that you become part of it. you could try offering them all advice on what to do/how to solve whatever there bitching about

  • 15 yrs, 3 mths ago

    omg i know how annoying girls can be at school.maybe u couldtry talking to them about how u feel or just leave it for a while and things might get better at least high school doesnt last foreva (even though sometimes it feels that way lol) xx

  • 15 yrs, 3 mths ago

    hey we all understand how you feel, it`s just the way girls are. But what exactly is everyone bitching about or being two faced? If there`s a situation at hand maybe we can give you some advice?

  • 15 yrs, 3 mths ago

    before you say anything just think `if someone who didn`t know me walked past as i said that, what would they think of me?` if the answer is `what a bitch` then don`t say it. i don`t know how you can help other except by leading by example. maybe the girls at your school are all just hormonal and it`ll calm down in a few. just try to wait it out. xoxo good luck!

  • 15 yrs, 3 mths ago

    This is such a tough 1, and like Kylie i certainly don`t miss the bitchiness of school. When 1 starts it ends up like a domino effect. Definately try to stay out of the bitchiness and stay true to yourself, girls will be girls, lol. I was always the one who tried to calm my girlfriends down, now I had a short temper, so I would end up just saying, “”Right now ladies, why are we all acting like female dogs, is that time of the month for you all or something!”” It usually got a laugh and the barriers came down a little. Hope all is well for you soon Fashionista, especially since your in the middle of exams, maybe that`s it, lots of stress and little sleep can make me very grumpy, so maybe this is what might be wrong with a couple of your friends. Good luck darl. :0)

  • 15 yrs, 3 mths ago

    Arr something i dont miss from school days. Just try and keep out of it and hopefully they get over it and grow up. Maybe you can try and help them work things out. :)) goodluck

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