5 yrs ago

How to know you’re not pregnant if you don’t have periods anymore due to birth control?

Hi ladies,

Just hoping there are maybe beauties on here who are in a similar situation who have figured out a way to work with it better than I have.

So I’m in a committed long-term relationship but we don’t want kids. Birth control has been a struggle for me (that’s putting it mildly). Mostly because of my history of very frequent, very heavy periods and my seeming sensitivity to estrogen.

I started out with a “mild” birth control pill (Yaz 24+4) which has relatively few hormones for a birth control pill – this caused me to have a non-stop mild period. Which was annoying. So my doctor prescribed Estelle 35 (a much more hormone-heavy pill) hoping this would help control the bleeding – it did, and it also gave me absolutely shattering migraines and muscle cramps. So I asked for alternatives to the pill.

I was fitted with the Implanon, which I had for a total of 6 years. The first 4-5 years were awesome, but after that (when I hit 30) I suddenly started getting extremely frequent periods (3 weeks of period, 1 week of no period, 3 weeks of period, etc). So once again my periods were out of control.

I have the Mirena IUD since last August and I love it. No side-effects and… no period since it was inserted. Yay! After years of struggling with near-constant bleeding I finally have a break.

That said, it’s been 9 months and I haven’t had a period. It’s kind of freaking me out. My period, annoying as it was, was also a good way for me to tell I wasn’t pregnant. Now I feel like I don’t “understand” my body anymore and I don’t know when to worry if I’m pregnant or not.

I’ve Googled it and everyone else is just saying “you get to know your body’s new patterns on when you’re ovulating and when you’re supposed to have a period, even if you don’t” – but I don’t. I don’t see any patterns. I don’t get any cycle-related symptoms.

I’m starting to consider buying bulk-pregnancy tests and to just test every month instead. But that’s a pretty expensive option. I was wondering if anyone in a similar situation (no period due to birth control and not wanting pregnancy) has found a solution that would be better than the pregnancy tests.

[I included the birth control history just to avert suggestions of changing birth controls to get my period back – that just isn’t happening.]

Thank you for reading all this and I’m really hoping for some advice!

Nell

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  • 4 yrs, 9 mths ago

    Had some discussion lately with other natural medicine practitioners, about the whole thing of suppressing menstruation altogether via OCP or implants. Sad that women are left with this as the apparent only option for controlling periods which are heavy, prolonged, painful, irregular, or all of this. I wish I knew better in my teens, and from 20 when I began OCP for irregularity. I also had the heavy frequent 10 day periods early on in my teens. I had NO idea that this could be due to low thyroid function, or anemia (see how that becomes a catch 22!) I also didnt know til after study in my early thirties, that I could resolve so much in a short time. Still having normal periods now at 57.

  • 4 yrs, 11 mths ago

    The above post by Anna619 might be spam (which I’ve reported).

  • 5 yrs ago

    Going on what happened to me when pregnant with both of my children. Who were planned. I got blue veins running down my breasts. This was before positive on home pregnancy test. I have pale skin so it was obvious.

    • 4 yrs, 11 mths ago

      I have blue veins down my breasts as well but I know I`m not pregnant. Was going to mention it last time I was at the GP but forgot. The blue veins always seem to be there.

      • 4 yrs, 11 mths ago

        Do you have really fair skin? Often it’s just because of that and how translucent the skin is.

      • 4 yrs, 11 mths ago

        It is quite fair, can also notice blue veins sometimes on the inside of my wrist as well.

      • 4 yrs, 11 mths ago

        Chicklet I do on my chest area but they aren`t there when I`m not pregnant. I do have more of an olive undertone but as I avoid the sun I am pale.

  • 5 yrs ago

    First, take a pregnancy test, secondly pass tests or go for an ultrasound

  • 5 yrs ago

    Hi NellAdams,
    Mirena released local progestin to the uterus. It prevents pregnancy by 2 ways:
    1) Thicken the uterus mucus so it is hostile to sperm. Sperm will not be able to survive to fertilise any eggs.
    2) Thins the uterus lining so any embryo will not attach, ie. no pregnancy

    Most women stops menstruating after a few months due to the thinning of the uterus lining. You see, you only menstruate if you have thick uterus lining (i.e. endometrium) which sheds during normal menstrual cycle, due to your body hormonal changes with oestrogen and progesterone. However, since you have localised progestin (a form of progesterone), you body oestrogen and progesterone feedback loop is disrupted. So, no menstrual cycle.

    Just remember to change your Mirena every 5 years for effective contraception.

  • 5 yrs ago

    Hey nelladams I had the mirena in for about 3 years and only had one period throughout that entire time right at the very start of insertion. I never had any periods after that for 3 years and the day after having it removed I got my period, back to normal. Not having one is nothing to worry about =)

  • 5 yrs ago

    I get very light periods on my mirena, sometimes I dont get them for months but I don’t worry that I’m pregnant . However I have been pregnant before so I like to I think I would know pretty quickly if I was knocked up! I just assume it’s working and doing it’s job. It has never concerned me and I’m getting older now, this mirena will be my last. Then I’ll be thinking of menopause, sigh.

    As Duality has pointed out it would be good for you to speak to a doctor, if this is making you feel anxious or upset then they might have more answers or suggestions for you.

  • 5 yrs ago

    I have never used a Mirena but am of the understanding they are to prevent pregnancy? They are a form of birth control? So am unsure as to why you think you may be pregnant if you have the mirena in? They stop sperm from entering your uterus and Fallopian tubes to fertilise the egg. If the non-periods are of concern talk to your GP, it may be normal to not get periods with the Mirena. But I’m pretty sure it would be a very low chance of getting pregnant with this device

  • 5 yrs ago

    You need to be having a chat with an ob/gyn, get your gp to refer you. Please don’t rely on well-meaning internet advice when it comes to serious things like your health and pregnancy.

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