How to know you’re not pregnant if you don’t have periods anymore due to birth control?
Hi ladies,
Just hoping there are maybe beauties on here who are in a similar situation who have figured out a way to work with it better than I have.
So I’m in a committed long-term relationship but we don’t want kids. Birth control has been a struggle for me (that’s putting it mildly). Mostly because of my history of very frequent, very heavy periods and my seeming sensitivity to estrogen.
I started out with a “mild” birth control pill (Yaz 24+4) which has relatively few hormones for a birth control pill – this caused me to have a non-stop mild period. Which was annoying. So my doctor prescribed Estelle 35 (a much more hormone-heavy pill) hoping this would help control the bleeding – it did, and it also gave me absolutely shattering migraines and muscle cramps. So I asked for alternatives to the pill.
I was fitted with the Implanon, which I had for a total of 6 years. The first 4-5 years were awesome, but after that (when I hit 30) I suddenly started getting extremely frequent periods (3 weeks of period, 1 week of no period, 3 weeks of period, etc). So once again my periods were out of control.
I have the Mirena IUD since last August and I love it. No side-effects and… no period since it was inserted. Yay! After years of struggling with near-constant bleeding I finally have a break.
That said, it’s been 9 months and I haven’t had a period. It’s kind of freaking me out. My period, annoying as it was, was also a good way for me to tell I wasn’t pregnant. Now I feel like I don’t “understand” my body anymore and I don’t know when to worry if I’m pregnant or not.
I’ve Googled it and everyone else is just saying “you get to know your body’s new patterns on when you’re ovulating and when you’re supposed to have a period, even if you don’t” – but I don’t. I don’t see any patterns. I don’t get any cycle-related symptoms.
I’m starting to consider buying bulk-pregnancy tests and to just test every month instead. But that’s a pretty expensive option. I was wondering if anyone in a similar situation (no period due to birth control and not wanting pregnancy) has found a solution that would be better than the pregnancy tests.
[I included the birth control history just to avert suggestions of changing birth controls to get my period back – that just isn’t happening.]
Thank you for reading all this and I’m really hoping for some advice!
Nell
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