3 yrs, 2 mths ago

Benefits of quitting alcohol

I stopped drinking about 10 months ago now and I wanted to share some of the benefits, and see if anyone else is on the same journey. I was motivated to post on here because my skincare benefits have been absolutely incredible. 2020 was also a year when drinking in Australia (especially among women) increased dramatically and it’s a really good time to have a conversation about how and why we drink. It also doesn’t matter how much you drink – whether it’s a few glasses a week, or more – it’s always worth reevaluating anything that can negatively affect our physical and mental health. No judgement here at all, whether you drink or you don’t!

Here are the biggest benefits I’ve seen in my 10 months off booze:

-My skin looks incredible! I started getting fine lines in my late 20s, and in my mid 30s now and they have disappeared. My skin is clear and even – having oily and acne prone skin, this was never the case, not since I was about 13.

-My mental health has improved drastically. I attribute this to both quitting drinking and also addressing stressors in my life with a psychologist. I had very severe, diagnosed anxiety and depression, both which affected my life dramatically and I really struggled to get by. This was surprising to me – I didn’t expect such huge mental health benefits from addressing one seemingly insignificant coping mechanism.

-My likelihood of getting cancer has decreased. I like to think of myself as pretty well-informed about health issues, but I didn’t realise when I was drinking that alcohol was a carcinogen on par with smoking. I feel more confident that I’m looking after myself now. I would previously do a lot of ‘healthy’ things like eat more fruit and vegetables, but then at the same time binge drink like everyone else in my age group was doing, and not even question it.

-I have begun to heal my relationship with my body. For many years, I’ve tied my weight to my worth. Stopping drinking has given me the mental space to actually realise that my appearance has NOTHING to do with me as a person, nor does it tell people about my health status. Health comes at all shapes and sizes. Even when I was at my thinnest, I was always finding reasons to hate my body. It’s never too late to let go of these little things that cause enormous daily stress. I don’t want to be growing older and worrying about how my body looks, and hiding in ‘flattering’ clothes – I want to be entirely focused on living life. And while these changes don’t happen overnight, they are certainly more noticeable for me now.

I would love to hear of anyone else’s experiences with stopping drinking. I’d prefer to keep this thread positive and that includes not judging other peoples’ choices to drink or not. Happy 2021, beauties <3

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  • 2 yrs, 9 mths ago

    I stopped drinking last year too. I am more of a social drinker than anything and not going out last year made me really curb my drinking.

    I’ve really noticed the difference in how bright my skin looks, my fine lines aren’t so bad, my weight doesn’t yo-yo as much, I feel much better physically and mentally.

    So many benefits, that I’ve continued with my minimal drinking this year as well.

  • 3 yrs ago

    I have never really liked drinking alcohol , it’s always made me have a sore stomach the last few years I decided it’s not worth having if it makes me uncomfortable on a night out.

  • 3 yrs ago

    I rarely drink, can count on one hand the number of drinks I’d have in a year.

  • 3 yrs, 1 mth ago

    there are a lot of benefits, some of which are: you get better-looking skin, get better quality sleep, achieve a healthier weight, improve nutrition

  • 3 yrs, 2 mths ago

    If I could like your OP eriberry I would! And happy new year to you too.

    I’m mostly a non-drinker by choice, partly because I don’t like the stuff, but partly because my digestive system physically can’t handle it. That being said, I do drink some alcohol every now & again, if & when I feel like it. I don’t judge those who choose to drink, but generally it’s not fun being the only sober/sober-ish person in the room. My parents, on the other hand, are & have been somewhat large consumers of the stuff.

    My mum in particular is on a mission this year to not only reduce her alcohol consumption, but her sugar & fat intake due to being fairly overweight & wanting to lose that weight. So far she’s lost around 2-3 kilos, which I think is motivating her to continue on this path. She’s the main culprit when it comes to drinking: she can’t stop at just 1 or 2 wines, she has to drink the whole bottle (or 2). She gets silly when drunk, maybe even a bit more chatty than usual.

    My dad, on the other hand, gets very chatty (and, dare I say it, annoying) when he’s had too many wines (he’s not like this on the beers though). Either that or he becomes even more moody/stroppy than he already is (this usually happens after I or my mum tell him to shut up and stop passing commentary on everything on TV).

    Edited this post as I think I got a bit TMI….

  • 3 yrs, 2 mths ago

    I rarely drink, can count on one hand the number of drinks I’d have in a year. People think I’m strange when I say I don’t drink. I have friends who I think drink quite a lot. Mum always has a large glass or two of wine at dinner. Think she needs to cut back.

  • 3 yrs, 2 mths ago

    Bumping this too in case anyone has missed it…..

    My parents were publicans when I was in my teens. I lived upstairs of some pretty dingy pubs for a few years. It gave me a great insight into just what alchohol could do to a person , physically, mentally, spiritually. A respect for it that I think many of my peers did’nt have. That’s not to say I have’nt gotten pretty drunk at times in my life but I’m not a big drinker. I will have a few now and then these days, when I feel like having a drink, not simply because it’s new years eve or a birthday etc…

    I’m not surprised you noticed a change in your skin eriberry if our liver struggles then it’s one of the first places to show it.
    My husband gave up smoking a couple of years ago after more than 20 years of my nagging LOL . He started to get red patches on his skin, a bit like eczema , every now and then he would get them randomly, I bought him some Avene calcifate which he jokingly called his “blotch cream” he believes it was something to do with giving up smoking, maybe it was his body purging something? He does’nt get them now, they have slowly stopped appearing. Maybe it was related to quitting smoking, who know? , I’m just glad he gave up.

    Happy new year eriberry – onwards and upwards!

  • 3 yrs, 2 mths ago

    Wow, eriberry! Great post! LIVE YOUR LIFE, GIRL!

    Please read eriberry’s post!

    Like most women, I struggle with body image, too. But, I don’t let it stop me doing things.

    I used to drink a lot in my teens. A counsellor said I was an alcoholic, but in hindsight, I don’t think I was because I quit immediately, without a problem. I didn’t drink for years afterwards, but now I drink a little – as in maybe a few times a year.

    My non-drinking mother used to try to get me to drink at Xmas because I’m a happy drunk & she knew there’d be no fights with dad if I was drinking. As a migraine sufferer, it’s odd that I don’t get hangovers, but alcohol makes me so thirsty I drink a lot of water after each glass. Despite not seeing immediate symptoms, I know it’s detrimental to drink at all.

    Happy 2021, eriberry!

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