Ok so scent got to get the blunt of my anger on friday night but i'll just explain to you girls whats happened then ask for your help.
On Friday my partner went in to collect Callum from daycare while I waited outside cos I cant go in until it has been confirmed there are no more cases of chickenpox (im pregnant and it may be dangerous). He was welcomed with a big red letter telling us we owe them over $1000, which for one is lies cos we pay by bpay every wk. And even if we did it was handled very unprofessionally, just by looking at the wall where all our statements he could see who owed money cos they were bright red!! Then someone had been giving out that we hadnt signed in and left a note about it...it wasnt my fault i couldnt sign him in the girl forgot to bring the book out to me and I was in a hurry...so whos to blame??? He asked one staff member who wrote it, he said he didnt know so he asked another member if they knew and she said it was the acting director. When he heard this he asked her to tell the director that the raeson i couldnt was cos the chickenpox....this was supposedly 'abusing staff'!!! Please!!! (i mean he may of been cranky cos he just finished a 36hr shift but i can garauntee he didnt abuse anyone!!) Then I was in the car and he wanted to take off his shoes and i realised the socks on him werent his...they were someone elses dirty socks!!! yuk!! I dont even mind they lost his but to put dirty socks n a child?? Then I brought him hme and changed his nappy, his bum was brigt red and covered in very sore looking rash...and wasnt cleaned properly!!! He was also starving...we got to daycare at 5.10, supper is 5...there was no signs of any dinner...so im presuming that the staff were too biusy cleanin up to get out for the wkend that they didnt bother to give the kids their dinner!!! I was chatting to one of the carers fri nyt online, who by the way wasnt there on fri, who accused my partner of abusing staff, said the sock thing was my fault cos i hadnt labelled his socks and they dont know who owns each sock. Now i may have excepted that as an excuse only one sock was in his bag so they did know which ones where his, and in my eyes its no excuse to put someone elses dirty socks on him. Did they ever hear of cross infection??? Especially with so many bugs goin around at the min!! There were a few other things we disagreed on but that was the main bits. She refused to comment on the unclean nappy!!!
So girls, am i over reacting?? Or is this really bad??
What really worries me though is that he was really hard to put down to sleep. Normally we put him in his cot and walk away and he either goes straight to sleep or talks to himself til he falls asleep. But fri i had to actually rock him to sleep he was that bad. Saturday i let him cry for nearly an hr (checking on him every few mins) but he just wouldnt sleep, then finaly at 3pm with such an overtired child i had to pt him to sleep. Sunday was the same thing but after i took him back up from his crying fir after being in the cot for half an hour he was so tired he climbed up on couch onto my lap and was asleep in seconds, but when i tried to put him into his cot he freaked. My partner had to stand there in the room til he fell asleep last night and he woke at least once an hour!!! Should I be worried that something has happened? Or is this a normal phase that kids go through and it just happened to happen after Friday??
Soory for my long winded story i just am worried!!