15 yrs ago

Getting Clucky Again!!

I was looking through all the baby photos of my son and I sobbed….I cant believe in 2 months he will be 1 years old already.
I used to laugh at mum saying how she said time will fly…and now I know she was dead serious….
I find myself almost daily thinking about wanting another baby….I love kids and whilst motherhood is trying it is so completely rewarding.
My partner keeps telling me, soon enough, soon enough…and I know he really wants another, in the hope we will have a little girl, but common sense prevails due to the recession thats happening at the moment…I am not working and he has had to go back to study so he can work on getting a career.

Anyone else clucky at the moment?? hahaha I need some gals to talk baby stuff with 😛

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  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    I have a 6 year gap between my two. due to financial constraints it wasn`t feasible for us to have them closer. when he was 4yr old we decided to have another one and then we thought we will wait till he starts grade prep for me to get pregnant again ( got pregnant first go) and now i have a little girl – I was shocked to find i was having a girl I really wanted another boy. but she is gorgeous and i love her.

    when the time is right you will know when its right for you to have another one….everyone is different and it is hard especially if there is no family to help, which was in our case too. good luck to everyone trying!!!

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    I have a 6 year gap between my two. due to financial constraints it wasn`t feasible for us to have them closer. when he was 4yr old we decided to have another one and then we thought we will wait till he starts grade prep for me to get pregnant again ( got pregnant first go) and now i have a little girl – I was shocked to find i was having a girl I really wanted another boy. but she is gorgeous and i love her.

    when the time is right you will know when its right for you to have another one….everyone is different and it is hard especially if there is no family to help, which was in our case too. good luck to everyone trying!!!

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    I have a 6 year gap between my two. due to financial constraints it wasn`t feasible for us to have them closer. when he was 4yr old we decided to have another one and then we thought we will wait till he starts grade prep for me to get pregnant again ( got pregnant first go) and now i have a little girl – I was shocked to find i was having a girl I really wanted another boy. but she is gorgeous and i love her.

    when the time is right you will know when its right for you to have another one….everyone is different and it is hard especially if there is no family to help, which was in our case too. good luck to everyone trying!!!

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    I have a 6 year gap between my two. due to financial constraints it wasn`t feasible for us to have them closer. when he was 4yr old we decided to have another one and then we thought we will wait till he starts grade prep for me to get pregnant again ( got pregnant first go) and now i have a little girl – I was shocked to find i was having a girl I really wanted another boy. but she is gorgeous and i love her.

    when the time is right you will know when its right for you to have another one….everyone is different and it is hard especially if there is no family to help, which was in our case too. good luck to everyone trying!!!

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    LOL emms glad you had a laugh, hehe. Good luck with what ever you decide to do, only you know what is right darl and when it is the right time everything will just fall into place 🙂

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    LOL emms glad you had a laugh, hehe. Good luck with what ever you decide to do, only you know what is right darl and when it is the right time everything will just fall into place 🙂

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    LOL emms glad you had a laugh, hehe. Good luck with what ever you decide to do, only you know what is right darl and when it is the right time everything will just fall into place 🙂

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    LOL emms glad you had a laugh, hehe. Good luck with what ever you decide to do, only you know what is right darl and when it is the right time everything will just fall into place 🙂

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    Mel , i am laughing at your comment , `one with out too many issues ` lol ! so funny ..!!
    well i recently stated taking the pill , well about 4 months ago , id say .. my dermatologist reccomened it for my skin . so unless im totally 100% sure i want to have the next baby , im not going off it . (my skin is so much better on the pill , if i had of known it would have improved my skin so much i would have taken it years ago , as i have never been on the pill b4 )
    and then of course , i have heard its easier to have a second baby , conceiving wise , then the first .. if it took another 4 years to fall pregnant , id be a tadd dissapointed , because eventaullly , id like to get a job again !
    Scent , none of my plans have ever turned out the way they were planned , before or after baby number 1 lol ..so i dont expect things to be much different with baby number 2 .lol

    But you both might have noticed , id really like a girl (based on my other thread lol ) this time round . a healthy baby is the only kind anyone really wants , but of course already having a boy , id love a little girl !
    the thing that plays on my mind is , what if i have a boy ! then will i want to try again lol .. now i never did picture my self a mum of 3 .

  • 14 yrs, 3 mths ago

    Mel , i am laughing at your comment , `one with out too many issues ` lol ! so funny ..!!
    well i recently stated taking the pill , well about 4 months ago , id say .. my dermatologist reccomened it for my skin . so unless im totally 100% sure i want to have the next baby , im not going off it . (my skin is so much better on the pill , if i had of known it would have improved my skin so much i would have taken it years ago , as i have never been on the pill b4 )
    and then of course , i have heard its easier to have a second baby , conceiving wise , then the first .. if it took another 4 years to fall pregnant , id be a tadd dissapointed , because eventaullly , id like to get a job again !
    Scent , none of my plans have ever turned out the way they were planned , before or after baby number 1 lol ..so i dont expect things to be much different with baby number 2 .lol

    But you both might have noticed , id really like a girl (based on my other thread lol ) this time round . a healthy baby is the only kind anyone really wants , but of course already having a boy , id love a little girl !
    the thing that plays on my mind is , what if i have a boy ! then will i want to try again lol .. now i never did picture my self a mum of 3 .

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