Ex Fiancee

Ask yourself one thing…if this guy is a ‘douche’ then do you even care why he’s messaging you? He’s probably just gone in the head like most men lol!!

Hun completly ignore this creep, he sounds like the type of guy that likes to feel remembered by an ex, it might do something to his ego, especially if he is having a rough time with his ex, he then turns to you, hears someone familer especially an ex, prob doesnt mean he wants you back, maybe a player who likes to feel wanted by other women, sounds like an ex of mine. Completly block his number, you are in a relationship and so is he, he isnt worth your time.

apart from the reasons already mentioned. maybe you just crossed his mind or he came across you number while going to through his contacts and just wanted an excuse to talk? not because he misses you, simply cuz he’s bored and he wonders what ur upto

He has feelings for you but they may not be positive feelings, the one feeling that stands out is jealousy and you really don’t want to play this game. After two years he shouldn’t have your number, get a new one and ignore him. If you can’t ignore him and you are going to over think this you need to consider if you may still have feelings for him. You are engaged! Be happy! Don’t let him drive a wedge between you and your fiancé, he’s taken 2 yrs to act if he wants you back and he’s going about it the wrong way, he’s waited until you’re happily engaged he needs a kick up the arse.

It does sound like he is just doing this to get a reaction from you.

I wouldn’t suggest changing your number…it’s a lot of hassle and easy enough for him to get hold of a new number through mutual friends, plus why give him the satisfaction? Just ignore further messages from him..I guarantee that will drive him crazy far more.

It might be worth you also blocking his account on FB if you haven’t already. And I agree with some of the others, perhaps block his number if you need to so you don’t have to face getting his messages from time to time.

It’s like this…its inconceivable of us to understand why certain people act the way they do, as we’re just not built like them. So their actions could make perfect sense to them, just not to us, and we’ll never understand why regardless of how much time we spend analysing it. So you need to just do what’s best for you, whatever that may be (ignoring him or blocking him), for your own peace of mind.

I hope that helps.

Yeah poor new girlfriend.

If he’s a douche and it was a messy breakup then yeah he has ego issues and likes to think you pine after him, even after all this time it’s sad that he cant move on. Best to put him in the past.

You can go one of two ways – new number (bit of a hassle)
or just block the number – if you’re on a plan you can do this by ringing up the company and addin his number to a blocked list. Nice and easy and doesnt effect anyone else but him.

iit doesn’t bother me in the slightest that he msgs me I just thought it was random. I chuckle to myself that he still has to find reasons to msg me..I couldn’t care less about him..I feel sorry for his new girlfriend haha she will realise soon enough how much of a twat he can be

Yep totally understand Meedee! Shouldn’t have replied..I know for next time! He is such a twat he would be doing it for a reaction and silly me reacted 🙂

Ah Im sure we have all done that at times.
I know that in my past I had a guy that would pop up from time to time and it went on for years. He would mess with my head and I would get very unsettled…it would take me ages to calm down and once i did then i would move on with life and forget about him and then suddenly…out the blue…there he was again….aarrgghhh. This went on until i realised i was allowing him to do this.

Yep totally understand Meedee! Shouldn’t have replied..I know for next time! He is such a twat he would be doing it for a reaction and silly me reacted 🙂

If you seriously dont want him back in your life then i would 100% ignore him….even better if you know how ..block his number from your phone. If you dont know how im sure they could help you if you went to the store of your service provider…such as Telstra or optus, etc

Its possible that hes one of those people that cling to past relationships and even though he now has a new girlfriend it hurts his ego to think that you could possibly move on….Him jumping into your life from time to time lets him know that you dont/cant forget him.
If you really felt that you had to respond to him then all you should have done is sent him a smiley face and left it at that. Asking him who gave him that information means he has to respond and he knows he got you interested enough that you have now engaged him in conversation. If he thinks you are married now with 7 kids…WHO CARES???
Honeslty…if you dont want him in your life then give him nothing. You dont owe him anything and you dont need to expalin your actions to him at all…..so dont.
Know what I mean? By responding you give him the power so to speak. When he contacted you he wanted a response…you responded so he had the power because you gave it to him.
If you dont respond then its you with the power and he has nothing.