A month of sex
Day 31
Day 31: The old trench coat trick. Every girl has to do it once in her life. Show up at his work on your lunch break, whether it be an office or a building site and whisk him away to your car or an empty office, lock the door and get down to business.
Day 30
Day 30: Wear him out. Once, twice, hell why not three times. When you’re out together in public, tell him what he’s in for when you get home and just go for it!
Day 29:
Day 29: Wild in the wild. Take your love-making outside. “In 25 years of practice, I haven’t seen a patient with any sex-in-the-grass-related complaints,” says gynaecologist Suzanne Merrill-Nach, M.D.
Day 28
Day 28: Take a bubble bath together on a week night and wash each other’s hair.
Day 27
Day 27: Unconditional love. We all know our man’s never going to look like Channing Tatum but we love him regardless. Whisper to him that you can’t imagine waking up next to a sexier, more exciting man than him.
Day 26
Day 26: It’s all about quickies. Divert his attention ten minutes before he leaves for work, or before you’re heading out with the girls. Keep him guessing when your next spontaneous passion will strike.
Day 25
Day 25: Blind-fold each other. There’s nothing like a role play to put spice back into the bedroom.
Day 24
Day 24: Watch a naughty video together. Tell your man you really want to watch a special documentary together; then surprise him by turning off the lights and turning on a racy film.
Day 23
Day 23: Take control. It’s okay to relinquish all control sometimes — or to totally take over. Surprise him when he gets home from work for a night hosted by yours truly, wearing nothing but your underwear and heels!
Day 22
Day 22: Play grown-up truth or dare. This will give you both the opportunity to voice a fantasy you may have in an exciting and playful way.
Day 21
Day 21: Cook him brekky, switch off from technology and spend a lazy Sunday in bed together.
Day 20
Day 20: Play together like kids. Ask him to help you wash the dishes, and then start a water fight. “Water fights might be even better than food fights,” says Kerner.
Day 19
Day 19: Shh! Agree to spend an evening using only body language to get your passionate intentions across. You’ll discover a new level of touch.
Day 18
Day 18: Exercise, sexercise. Spend your Saturday morning working out together. There’s a link between working up a sweat and having amazing sex. When your blood is really pumping, your orgasms are more intense. For maximum mojo, hit the gym together late in the day.
Day 17
Day 17: Make out like you’re both teenagers again. Bring yourself back to that state of nervous anticipation with no below-the-belt contact. “Spend time on foreplay. Don’t go past second base and you’ll find yourself wanting more,” says Kerner.
Day 16
Day 16: Flirt in cyber space. Post a few flirty messages on your husband’s wall. Complimenting each other in a public forum mixes it up and adds to the anticipation of seeing each other at the end of the day.
Day 15
Day 15: Take your relationship off auto-pilot and try something new. Go sky-diving or take a dance lesson together. This will create new excitement and romance in your relationship.
Day 14
Day 14: Let him know he’s on your mind by coming home with a small gift for him. Nothing extravagant, it’s the thought that counts – but the fact you were thinking of him will be sure to give him a confidence boost.
Day 13
Day 13: Try some PDA. The next time you’re dining à deux, squeeze in next to him on the same side of the booth or table — as if you’re at the most romantic cafe in Paris. Then let your tongue do the talking.
Day 12
Day 12: Take a walk down memory lane. Read emails and texts you wrote each other when you first started dating. It will refresh your feelings for one another and remind you of why you’re a couple in the first place.
Day 11
Day 11: Get cooking. “It’s an opportunity to create something special as a couple,” says celebrity chef and restaurateur Bobby Flay. “So the crème brûlèe doesn’t set. Who cares? It’s just the two of you.” Make an entire dinner that can be eaten with your fingers, and then feed your lover.
Day 10
Day 10: Change venues or apply feng shui to your bedroom. Get rid of the pile of clothes on the floor and light some candles. Make your boudoir an adults-only escape. “Having a place where you can relax and feel sensual is often the gateway to sex,” Kerner says.
Day 9
Day 9: Make a reservation at a fancy restaurant. “During the meal, you’re allowed to talk only about sexual fantasies,” suggests Patricia Love, Ed.D., author of Hot Monogamy. “There’s something very erotic about being public and being surreptitious about your sexuality.”
Day 8
Day 8: Surprise him. Ask him to come with you to see your parents this weekend and volunteer to drive. Instead of actually taking him there, take a wrong turn on a secluded road. Pull over and seduce him.
Day 7
Day 7: Bring your culinary skills to the bedroom. “Pour peppermint schnapps in your belly button and have him sip it. Then have him kiss your breasts and blow on the spots he kissed. The peppermint schnapps and air combine for a cool sensation that heightens arousal, ” says LA sex therapist, Ava Cadell, Ph.D.
Day 6
Day 6: Pretend he’s a stranger. This is a great way to spice up your sex life without going outside your relationship for extra ingredients. “Remember that our brain is really our biggest sex organ, and we want to stimulate our creativity and imagination as much as possible,” says Kerner.
Day 5
Day 5: Get away from it all. Refresh the romance by incorporating a special element from a past trip you took together – it could be as simple as having Italian wine with dinner instead of the bottle you buy every week.
Day 4
Day 4: Mix it up a little and try a new position tonight. Ask him to sit on a chair and enter you while you’re facing away from him. “Couples often stick with what works, ” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of Sex Recharge. “Trying a new position creates novelty and helps you discover what turns you on.”
Day 3
Day 3: Swap your comfy Bonds boy-legs for some sexy lingerie. Lacy underwear makes you feel much more luxurious and your guy will love the change of scenery.
Day 2
Day 2: Send a dirty picture. There’s nothing like a teaser text while you’re both at work to get your week rolling. Taking sexy photos is a visual reminder — to you and your guy — of your sensuality. Keep it discreet, remember less is more!
Day 1
Day 1: Book in for a bikini wax or if you’re game enough, a brazilian. We all know how sexy we feel after a good pampering session and your man will love your confidence.
