The ultimate sex positions
Spank me maybe
Spank me maybe: As your partner sits upright with both his legs extended in front, straddle him reverse cowgirl-style, but with your legs stretched behind you and your torso positioned between his thighs and shins. He’ll love the unforgettable rear view he’s getting and how easy it is for him to gently smack your butt.
Mission control
Mission control: With your guy lying on his back on the bed, have him lift his knees up to his chest. Then straddle his hips and squat so that your thighs hug his. Before you lower yourself on to his penis, take some lacy lingerie, a bathrobe tie or a pair of furry handcuffs and tie his wrists to the bedposts.
Belt it out
Belt it out: Sit on the kitchen counter or on top of the washing machine with him standing facing you, and sling a belt around the wide part of his back. Holding the ends of the belt for balance, raise your legs on to his shoulders then gently rest your feet. Use the belt to pull your upper body closer to him as he thrusts. This is a sexy way to incorporate some light bondage action.
Peep show
Peep show:Start out lying on your back with your knees bent and legs in the air, and have him get on his knees in front of you. Keep your head straight as he holds your ankles and lifts your butt and lower torso off the bed to the level of his penis – use your elbows for additional support. Once he’s inside you, spread your knees as far apart as you can for a peep show he’ll never forget.
Wild ride
Wild ride: Get him to lie on his back with one leg bent. Straddle his body sideways and lower yourself on to his penis. Press against his leg for clitorial stimulation as you’re riding him. You also have primo access to his balls, so take the opportunity to play with them to really drive him wild – it’s an area guys said they wish you’d pay more attention in a recent *Cosmo* poll.
Downward facing doggie
Downward facing doggie:Take doggie-style to a new level by mixing in a little yoga. Have your partner disengage for a second, then get into a low downward-facing-dog position, where your butt is high in the air. Get him to stand behind you, knees bent, so he can enter you from behind while holding your hips to help support you (so your arms don’t give out).
Vbrating V
Vbrating V: Straddle him face-to-face in a chair. Grasp the back of his neck or shoulders for balance, then lift your legs so that your calves sit on top of his shoulders. Since both his hands will be free, and your clitoris will be front and centre of all the action, have him use a vibrator on you while you grind on top of him – this will give you a killer simultaneous orgasm.
Nips ahoy
Nips ahoy: With him sitting upright, legs stretched out, straddle him. As you lower yourself on to his penis, slide your knees forward so they’re behind him, and lean back so your back is arched and pressed up against his thighs. As he thrusts, tell him to lean forward so his mouth is on your breasts, then have him lick or bite your nipples – whatever tickles your fancy.
I’ve been living like a nun since COVID – I’ll have to try these out when I get back into dating.