5 ways to improve your self-confidence in the bedroom
When it comes to sex, girls often struggle more with their self-confidence than guys.
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“When was the last time I shaved?”
“Am I a little whiffy down there?”
“Does this g-string make me look fat?”
These thoughts can make it a little difficult to get us in the mood for loving, let alone feel confident enough to initiate any fun between the sheets. What you need to realise is that guys love sex – and would very rarely turn it down.
To get in the right headspace to seduce, all you need are a few quick and easy confidence boosters that will see ensure you blow his mind…
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Stop thinking so much
Do you know who the only person that cares about your pubic hair is? You! Once a guy has a naked girl in his sights, he’s just excited about that fact alone, everything else is secondary. It’s the same deal with spiky legs, a snail trail and any seemingly embarrassing bit you wished you may have tended to before you found yourself getting erm… busy.
Get fresh, fast
Worried that you might be a little whiffy? It’s only natural – and even if you aren’t, giving your downstairs area a quick wipe will make you feel instantly fresh – even if you haven’t showered since morning. Try: Vagisil Gentle & Soothing Wipes, we love them as they soothe your delicate bits and provide a delicate, discreetly fresh scent.
Give yourself a spritz
In a case when you might find yourself wearing nothing, it’s beneficial to wear something – as in a fragrance that will drive him wild. Choose something you love and give yourself a quick spritz near your neck, in your hair and anywhere you might find him nuzzling. We love Kissing Elixir Love ($22, kitcosmetics.com.au) as it’s a pure vanilla perfume oil that’s designed to be so tempting, it’s irresistible to the opposite sex. If you’re after something a little spicier, try a spritz or two of Juicy Couture Viva La Juicy Noir – it’s notes of strawberry, honeysuckle and caramel will have him drooling.
Wear something flattering
When you’re trying to build up the confidence to throw your beau onto your bed and let him know exactly what you want to do with him, you don’t want to feel as though your ‘sexy’ G-string is making you look anything but. Opt for something that shows off your best features and makes you feel sexy; like a cami top that covers your mid-section, or one of his business shirts if you want have your arms covered. You can suggest leaving it on for a kinky twist if you want, even if it is just because you want to stay slightly covered up.
Go on, have a gargle
A quick gargle with mouthwash is a sure fire way to put any bad breath fears to bed. You only need to do it for around 30 seconds to feel like your mouth is dentist-clean. Don’t be afraid to pull out the old French kiss, too – if you want to get really close. We love Sensodyne® Gentle Mouthwash as it’s alcohol free and has a fresh yet gentle flavour.
Do you feel self conscious when it comes to some downstairs lovin'? How do you boost your confidence in the bedroom?