Gorgeous goodwill
17 Dec 2010 12:00 PM |
Posted by bh'sLeanne
The festive season isn’t all about looking pretty, partying and getting gifts – there’s a little bit of goodwill and giving involved too. But when it comes to bestowing beautiful gifts, why are we poor women left schlepping from store to store in search of the perfect presents?
Yes, this comes on the back of a weekend spent wandering around the mall, aimlessly trying to find inspiration for what to buy the in-laws, teamed with a lack of help or appreciation from my hubby.
And then I came across these stats from the Liberty Mutual “2010 Responsible Giving Survey”* claiming that 49% of married men say their spouse takes full responsibility for purchasing holiday gifts, while 75% of married women say they take full responsibility for purchasing holiday gifts. A slight discrepancy, but it appears I’m not alone in my tirade.
Similarly, a third of married men say they and their spouse share the responsibility of purchasing holiday gifts, but only 20% of married women say the same.
So it seems that whether we like it or not, if we feel the need to arrive at the Christmas festivities bearing gifts, we’ll be buying them ourselves. So thank goodness for small mercies that my clever co-workers have compiled a gift-giving guide. Join me in getting your gift inspiration pronto…

Who does the Christmas present buying in your house?
*The "2010 Responsible Giving Survey" was fielded for Liberty Mutual and The Responsibility Project by Ketchum Global Research Network between November 10-16, 2010, reaching 1,000 American adults nationwide.
Member Comments
(34)
Posted by:
beautyqueen95♥
(Australia)
IN my house, we all do! Me, mum, dad and lil sis do all the shopping ourselves. No making mum do it!
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 12:13pm)
Posted by:
Little Jo
(Australia)
While were on the subject of giving as you may have seen in the threads I had an overwhelming reponse to the Big Issue Christmas bag drive which finished on the 10th Dec. I am now starting new collections helping donate to 3 womens shelters and crisis centres in Brisbane. These shelters offer all sorts of help to women in need who have suffered domestic violence, homelessness or have just fallen on hard times. If you have any spare items you would like to donate such as toiletries, feminine hygene products etc. etc. I would love to hear from you!
please email me glamglee@hotmail.co.uk I know this is a busy time of year for all of us. I will continue this collection all year so please contact me any time. I will be making regular drop offs to these centres. Merry Christmas to all of you love from Glam.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 12:36pm)
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Elunia
(Australia)
Growing up it was always my mum who had to do all of the Christmas shopping, dad never did any of it himself and when it was suggested that he should do some he always got angry with whoever suggested it. Now that I've grown up I do my own :)
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 12:37pm)
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Divine Diva
(Australia)
I do all the shopping all the time. Sometimes it would be nice to have a helping hand. :D
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 12:46pm)
Posted by:
Beauty Obsession
(Member since 2007, Australia)
Mostly me!! I do enjoy it though but it can be stressful at times when you haven't a clue what to buy, can't find carparks in shopping centres, dodging crowds and completely blowing the budget. Good on you Glam for helping out such a good cause for those in need :)
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 12:52pm)
Posted by:
Katbickies
(Australia)
Well Done Glamglee :)
We both do the shopping, in fact my BF just spent yesterday hunting the perfect birthday present for my dad.
we always buy a few gifts for the kmart, big w and target wish trees. I have to admit, i do this for them, but also becuase it makes me feel good about me to know i'm doing something good i wont ever get thanks for. So giving can be a bit selfish too :)
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 12:56pm)
Posted by:
Svetlanaz
(Australia)
our school raised money for the kmart wishing tree and it was great to give back =)
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 1:11pm)
Posted by:
Jsomara
(Australia)
I do all the shopping but I drag my husband along for the grocery part. I think next year will be all online purchases to avoid the carpark rage and insane crowds at the shops.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 1:28pm)
Posted by:
Beautyjunkiegirl
(Australia)
chrstmas shopping is such a hassle.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 1:36pm)
Posted by:
Chicklet
(Member since 2008, Australia)
It's shared - I buy the main presents, but my husband likes to fill up stockings for everyone.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 2:11pm)
Posted by:
Morrigan
(Australia)
We both buy all the presents together (except of course the ones for us which are always a big surprise), we like doing everything together :)
What a great idea Glamglee!! Will have to have a look see if I can help with anything :) Ah, I love Christmas :))
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 2:18pm)
Posted by:
Ruby77
(Australia)
i do the shopping my partner does the paying :) its perfect, he cant stand busy shops and i love buying things.... i usually buy most of the kids stuff at the toy sales so we go through the catalogues together. But I buy all family presents and just tell him about it.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 2:27pm)
Posted by:
beautystar
(Member since 2007, Australia)
me...i even buy my own presents online (and this year also wrapped it for my husband to give me...I'm not even sure if he knows what he got me!). With our son, we'll talk about what to get him but its up to me to go get it...but i dont mind - i quite enjoy it! Its actually less annoying without him there 'helping' me!
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 2:29pm)
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Serena86
(Australia)
Growing up my parents equally shared the xmas shopping. Mum and Dad went together to buy my presents and they each shopped for their own parents and then Dad did all the xmas food shopping. Now that I'm an adult and don't have a partner all the xmas shopping is left to me. I usually shop online so I don't have to fight the crowds.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 2:29pm)
Posted by:
softness
(Member since 2007, Australia)
I do it all - I'm better at it and he's busy in his work so I don't mind at all. I'm the organised one and so he's happy for me to take full 'reigns' of the Christmas sleigh!
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 2:31pm)
Posted by:
jpandkt08
(Australia)
Sounds like you are doing a great job Glamglee :o)
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 2:59pm)
Posted by:
Face Paint
(Member since 2007, Australia)
Lil ol me does all the present buying in my household - for every occasion. Luckily, some people are happy receiving a gift car - which is easy unless they expect $500.00 value on the card.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 4:03pm)
Posted by:
dancr
(Member since 2008, Australia)
In my household me, but generally I think its the women.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 4:21pm)
Posted by:
rang
(Australia)
i' generally the person, because i go shopping with my boyfriend to help him pick out stuff for his family
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 4:35pm)
Posted by:
pepsilid
(Member since 2007, Australia)
Me, if I didn't go shopping for presents none of our friends and family would receive anything!
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 5:29pm)
Posted by:
Princess Lesletta
(Australia)
I did about 95% of the shopping for presents. Some years my husband does more than me.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 6:12pm)
Posted by:
Frannybee
(Australia)
Who does the Christmas shopping? Uh, that'd be me.
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 7:54pm)
Posted by:
Chickybabe1
(Australia)
I do all the xmas shopping in my household, i pick even out the gifts for my boyfriend's Mum & Sister too. Lucky for them i guess :)
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December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 10:46pm)
Posted by:
melmeko
(Member since 2007, Australia)
Me of course, my two little ones are just too little to shop......yet, lol. So yeah usually I just pick up a couple of things for myself, or things I have ordered recently and wrap them up for me, from them, lol, then try and act surprised when I open them, lol.
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December 18, 2010 (Dec 18, 2010 1:25am)
Posted by:
JayeKaye
(Australia)
We all sort of do, buying everything for each other and other friends and fam :)
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December 18, 2010 (Dec 18, 2010 8:01pm)
Posted by: beautyqueen95♥ (Australia)
IN my house, we all do! Me, mum, dad and lil sis do all the shopping ourselves. No making mum do it!
Posted on: December 17, 2010 (Dec 17, 2010 12:13pm)