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Good Luck darling!

Remember us bh’s are here to listen and a shoulder to cry on

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Thanks so much guys, i really needed this, im finding it so hard already..i really hope it turns out like your story SparkleSuzi, i guess time will, thanks again i appreciate every response, it has helped heaps! thank yyou!

It’s so hard when you’re in this position.
Age doesn’t necessarily always play a factor in whether it’s ‘real’ or not
But if you are even thinking about it, eg posting this topic – you obviously have some doubts so maybe a breather may be in order?
give yourselves the chance to step back and go into your adult life alone for a little while
I was in the same position…. started dating a guy after taking him to my year 12 formal. Things moved very quickly and we planned on getting married etc
But after a year and half I realised although he was a great guy – I wanted to go out and be on my own….. I prob made the wrong choice coz I’ve had disaster after disaster ever since oh dear!!!
But you have to do what you have to do and I just think I would be 24 and divorced if we stayed together and got married as planned
Hope everything comes up good, whatever your choice is
‘listen to your heart’….. some extra cheese for you hehe

I met my husband when i was 18yrs old and we have now been married for almost 9yrs. We have five beautiful children and are still head over heels in love. I truly believe we are soul mates, we both just fell in love and you just know when you have found the one you are meant to spend the rest of your life with.

Well I was with my first and only bf from 17-20 completely smitten and thought we would be together forever. I ended it for similar reasons as yourself bronze…

We didn’t talk for a whole year after the break up, then one night he called at 3am and we have been in each others lives ever since. Seeing each other on and off and now seeing each other exclusively.

We are both going to Europe this year but separately with friends and meeting up at some point and then hopefully settling down together when we get back.

I am now 23, 24 next month and I know he is the person I cannot live or want to be without. But I do believe we needed the break to travel, be single, be independent and realise that what we have is the greatest thing out there and if it’s meant to be it will definitely happen.

I believe if you love something let it go, if it comes back then it is yours. I hated the breakup but I am so glad it happened cause I appreciate the relationship so much more and realise how lucky I am to have such a man 🙂

I was with my first serious boyf from 15-18 and was convinced we were in love but like you i wanted a bit of freedom as i got older. The difference with my story is he didnt feel the same so it was very hard.
I eventually broke free and i have never regretted it since. Although because i had felt trapped for a long time at the end of the relationship i went a bit wild…and that i do regret but we all learn from our mistakes, i believe its the only way we can learn properly!!

Do wat you feel is right for you. Even if he doesnt feel the same he will get over it. We fought for awhile after because he was very jealous and smashed my mums windows, keyed my now partners car and slashed his tyres!! but hes over it now and is happy with his new partner!

The longer you leave it the more you will feel trapped and…not so much turn against him or have bad feelings for him but i cant think of how to describe it, if you do it sooner rather than later ye will both be able to move on easier.

Good luck xx

It will be very hard but you have family who love you and friends who love you and your true frieds will stand by you and support you

Thank you ladies! i love the fact that i can share my personal life with you and receive great advice 🙂

i think letting go would be the best but i just know its going to be so hard because we’re in the same group of friends and i know i’m going to see him alot which sucks but i guess i’ve just gotta deal with it